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Violin playing – Killing the passion

Disclaimer: English as a second language article! :) Some letters, words, and punctuation might not be in the right place.  :)  I apologize for any inconvenience. 

This article is dedicated to my University professor: Serban Nichifor

Here I go... 

Looking at a violin we see the beautiful shape, the craftsmanship, and the mystery which lies in it. And although the instrument might scream: “I can be anything! I can play in any hands, I can be what you want me to be!”, we often associate it with classical music and with the strict rules and elite audiences. And that is why some people want to stay away. “Away from what?” you might ask. Away from the violin world in general. Make sure you dress well when you go to a concert. Don’t dare to cough, they will look weird at you, close your eyes and follow the music. Did you like the first movement of Beethoven the 5th symphony? Don’t even dare to clap! It would mean you don’t even know the music and you are being rude. But look at the musicians on the stage! They all wear black. Are they at a funeral? Well, no, they just follow some old type rules where the musician himself/herself is not important. Important is the music. So, as a musician, do not dare to put a spark of color and distract the audience from listening to the amazing melodies of Schoenberg. No, no! 

Well, we are not built the same. Some of us crave more freedom in expressing ourselves when playing or listening. 

My first teacher almost made me give up. He would hurt my left hand with a pencil because I was not keeping it in the right position. He did not understand... Pressure and physical pain are not on the same page with dreams, hopes, and passions. Needless to say, I moved to another teacher. She was nice and I fell in love with the violin. But she did not insist on creating excellent habits. When I grew and I decided to become a professional violinist, I had to move to a more experienced teacher. Again, this particular teacher was acting in a way that I could not handle. He was screaming, swearing, and putting me down. He even broke his violin in front of one of my colleagues in a moment of anger. She left the music school and she changed her profession because of this teacher. Instead of giving up, I chose to move again. But my new teacher was not inspiring enough. and I did not grow too much. I lost a little bit of the spark I had. But I continued to practice my skill and follow the violin path. And I am glad I did.

The way classical music is taught is very strict. You have to follow the style of the era, the subtle nuances, and all the technical details. Rules on top of rules. I felt lost and trapped. I felt that although I had an amazing opportunity in my hands, I could not dream anymore. I was in a cage. 

The University years were very interesting. My chamber-music professor changed the way I play and understand music. He was very knowledgeable but very free. He taught me that music is a bird that flies in the sky, not a parrot in a golden cage. I learned that music doesn’t have to be strict, full of rules, and golden wires that keep you from becoming your highest self. He made me believe in myself, I fell in love with violin again and I grew wings to fly. I graduated and became a professional violinist. A free one that doesn’t believe in boundaries. This article is dedicated to him.

I am myself in my playing and I want my students to be the same. I will teach them the “rules” but I will not cut their wings. I will enforce building good habits, but I will not put them down. My goal is not to create robots, but to inspire human beings. 

And even if I wear black when I am on the concert stage, my eyes spark with all the colors of the rainbow. Because THE SECRET lies deep inside of me. And honestly? I always wish that someone will clap after the first movement of a concerto or a symphony. I do! Because that person came to the music hall with all the joy in their heart. 

As a professional violinist, I beg you: Please come! Even if you wear jeans and you have no idea about the program. Just come! Clap and let them look weird at you. Sitting on the stage, I will smile. And you will be my favorite person in the audience that evening! Because you came with a pure heart and because you know the secret.  That music has no rules, no boundaries, and no weirdness in it. It just is. And it is for everybody!!!

 

Yours sincerely, 

Florina

www.florysmusic.com

***Paint your life with music***

10/29/2020

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  • Paul Sorensen Violins
    Paul Sorensen Violins Australia
    Oct 30 2020 5:00 AM
    I love your story and passion to connect with all that is you through the violin (which has that capability) Thank-you for expressing this through such a powerful story I hope many will connect with your story and restore passion for playing and expression through all that you are 😁

    I love your story and passion to connect with all that is you through the violin (which has that capability)
    Thank-you for expressing this through such a powerful story
    I hope many will connect with your story and restore passion for playing and expression through all that you are 😁

  • FlorysMusic
    FlorysMusic
    Oct 30 2020 3:07 PM
    Thank you so much, Paul! All the best!

    Thank you so much, Paul! All the best!

  • Kathryn Gracey
    Kathryn Gracey Rocky Mts of Colorsdo, U.S.A
    Nov 19 2020 11:10 AM
    Thank you for sharing your thought, feelings and experiences re. playing and teaching violin. It was so very well written and translated perfectly. I love that you tossed away "cookie cutter" playing and expectations from your audience and students. Adre Rieu and Stephan Hauser have also done much in that regard. Bravo to all of you! I am a vibroacoustic therapist and self taught harpist [ except for using utube coaching]. I play my harps mostly for enjoyment, comfort and healing of others [ and myself]. I loved playing in hospital [ before Covid19 slammed the door]. That preemie infants went home earlier than predicted after hearing my harp was one of my greatest joys). Beginning to play the harp at age of 60 [I am now 73] was rathering daunting until I decided to play like I cook. That is... to use printed music like a recipe and choose to change however such how I want to; skipping ingredients that I do not have and/or do not like and adding what I want. I will never be accomplished enough to be on the stage with and orchestra or solo harpist at The Aspen Music Festival or teach in The Aspen Music School...all closed due to Covid. However I am good enough to play for the infirm, elderly, infants, parents, dying folks and their friends, families and caregivers, medical staff plus all who want to listen whenever.. where ever the opportunity comes. I also like to encourage others to play instruments and happilly loan my retired flutes, harps etc. One good thing about Covid is a blossoming opportunity to communicate with musicians round the world. Thank you for being one of the very most interesting and inspiring, Flory. 💓 Many Blessings! Kathryn

    Thank you for sharing your thought, feelings and experiences re. playing and teaching violin. It was so very well written and translated perfectly.
    I love that you tossed away "cookie cutter" playing and expectations from your audience and students. Adre Rieu and Stephan Hauser have also done much in that regard. Bravo to all of you!
    I am a vibroacoustic therapist and self taught harpist [ except for using utube coaching]. I play my harps mostly for enjoyment, comfort and healing of others [ and myself]. I loved playing in hospital [ before Covid19 slammed the door]. That preemie infants went home earlier than predicted after hearing my harp was one of my greatest joys).
    Beginning to play the harp at age of 60 [I am now 73] was rathering daunting until I decided to play like I cook. That is... to use printed music like a recipe and choose to change however such how I want to; skipping ingredients that I do not have and/or do not like and adding what I want. I will never be accomplished enough to be on the stage with and orchestra or solo harpist at The Aspen Music Festival or teach in The Aspen Music School...all closed due to Covid. However I am good enough to play for the infirm, elderly, infants, parents, dying folks and their friends, families and caregivers, medical staff plus all who want to listen whenever.. where ever the opportunity comes.
    I also like to encourage others to play instruments and happilly loan my retired flutes, harps etc.
    One good thing about Covid is a blossoming opportunity to communicate with musicians round the world. Thank you for being one of the very most interesting and inspiring, Flory. 💓
    Many Blessings!
    Kathryn

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